If you have news to share, an important event, something life changing to disclose, then you should tell your close friends and family first. Have the decency to tell them in person or via telephone. They don’t deserve to find out via social media. Social media announcements are impersonal and inconsiderate and should be reserved for acquaintances - most certainly NOT the appropriate means for sharing news with your immediate family. Seriously. Not acceptable. Ever.
I’m still hurt. I’m still upset.