17 months of W

I’m way overdue on posting W’s 17 month update…

Happy 17 months, W!!  I don’t think there have been too many changes this month.  You continue to understand so many words and commands.  You haven’t said too many new words, but your understanding amazes me.  Mom and dad went on a little trip and we heard that you said “pop” for grandpa and some version of Uncle Matt. J  You say go, but I don’t think you quite understand what it means.  I’ll tell you that we have to go bye bye or daddy had to go to work and you’ll repeat go.  Perhaps my favorite thing that you’re doing is pointing to pictures of mom and dad and saying ma and da.  Last night, you pointed to a picture of Elin Nordegren and said ma.  It made my night.  Anytime you want to compare your mom to a model is fine with me. J  We had a rough month in terms of sleep and illness, but I’m hopeful that we’re all on the mend.  This month, you completed a music class with Nani.  You spent time away from both mom and dad for the first time.  Your most favorite thing is being outside and you often cry when it’s time to come in.  You still love Jeopardy, trucks, and balls. J

The house hunting saga continues

We fell in love with one house.  The very next day after we saw the house, an offer was made and we missed out.  Then, I fell in love with another house.  It was slightly more expensive than I was comfortable with, BUT it was gorgeous.  Open floor plan, finished basement, large yard.  Perfect in every way.  I fell in love all over again.  It was bigger and better than the first house.  So we scheduled a walk through and I was SO excited.  I thought this could be IT, this could be OUR house!  The day we scheduled a walk through (just one week after it was listed), the realtor called to tell us there was an offer and it was under contract.  I actually cried.  I LOVED this house.  So maybe the third one I fall in love with, will be the one.  But for now, I’m completely dejected and disappointed.  :*(  We decided we were ready to move and it seems like the rest of the world did too.  L L L

 

This is what we'll be missing out on.  Told you it was beautiful.  Wouldn't you cry too?

Weekend Recap

This weekend was so much fun!  The weather is finally improving.

Saturday, I got a much needed haircut.  Then it was off to lunch with my boys for a belated Mother’s Day celebration.  We ordered W an apple juice and he was OBSESSED – I actually had to hide it so he’d eat.  We normally stick to water at home.  Then it was off to Babies R Us for puree and diapers and Target for groceries.  We ended the day with a walk. J

Sunday was church and a carnival at W’s future preschool.  He had so much fun and I so enjoyed watching him have a blast.  He laughed at the frog mascot, played games, checked out a fire truck, enjoyed a petting zoo, and went on his first pony ride.  I was hesitant to let him ride the pony because I thought he’d be frightened, but he had a smile the entire time he was on the pony.  I topped off the day my making a really yummy tomato, basil chicken and pasta dinner.  I’ve really enjoyed making dinner on Sundays – gasp!

 

 

 

Back from San Fran

Back from San Francisco!  Back to reality!  A and I had a great time.  We hit most of the major tourist spots… Fisherman’s Wharf, Alcatraz, Alamo Square, Lombard Street, and Sausalito.  We rode the cable cars and walked through Chinatown.  We saw sea lions – I LOVE the sea lions!!  I’m really disappointed I didn’t get to see the redwood trees.  Maybe another time.  I think more than anything, I just enjoyed spending time with A. J  We held hands, grabbed drinks at the bar, enjoyed a meal outside overlooking the bay in Sausalito.  It was wonderful, but by Saturday night, we were both missing W.

Sunday was Mother’s Day.  I didn’t think it would be a big deal to be away on Mother’s day.  I figured, I’m a mom every day so Mother’s Day is just another day.  Wrong.  So wrong.  I missed W terribly.  A and I went to mass at the oldest cathedral in California.  The priest asked the moms to come up so he could give a special blessing.  I couldn’t go up.  I was in tears.  I missed my W.  I’ll never be out of town on Mother’s Day again.

And speaking of W, I hear he had a wonderful time with his grandparents. J  I know he was spoiled and got lots of love.

All in all, a great trip, but I’m glad to be home!  And next time we have the opportunity to travel out of town (haha – maybe 10 years from now), I want a beach!  San Francisco was great, but this mom is ready to relax!! ;)

 

And now, a photo dump...

I couldn't get enough of the sea lions

Views on our way to Alcatraz and Sausalito

 

Alcatraz - amazed at how tiny those cells were

Beautiful view of the city from our hotel

The best ice cream sundae I've ever had courtesy of Ghirardelli

View from our outside table in Sausalito

 

San Fran

Tomorrow A and I head to San Francisco.  I’m almost afraid to mention it because I don’t want to jinx it. J  I’ll be attending a work conference on Thursday and Friday and we’ll squeeze in some outings/sightseeing Thursday night, Friday afternoon, and Saturday, returning on Sunday.  I wish we had more time to check out the city, but we’ll take what we can get!

W will be staying with his grandparents and uncle and I really hope all goes well – namely in the sleep department. :\

This is the first time A and I will both be away from W.  As much as I’m going to miss my little man, I’m so looking forward to spending time with A.  We barely get out for a lunch date so 4 whole days together is going to be wonderful… and maybe a little weird. J  I mean what are we going to talk about for 4 days?!?  Lol.

Here’s hoping for a great trip and a great stay for W! J 

This Week

This week has been a tough one.  Or maybe emotionally draining is a better way to describe it.  There were definitely a few low points, but I’ve been trying to focus on some of the positives I’ve noted this week.

1.       My friend that suffered the brain hemorrhage may be moved out of ICU soon.  I’ve texted him and received replies.  I’m taking these as good signs and hoping for continuous improvement.

2.       We have nightly dance parties and I LOVE them.  W hasn’t been himself and I think he’s teething again.  He’s been extremely clingy, whiny, and cranky.  Not like him.  BUT every night before bed, we have a little dance party and let me tell you, W has some moves. J

3.       I’ve had quite a few friendships disintegrate over the past year.  I felt really bad about it.  I took it very personally.  I think I’m finally completely over it.  This week has helped me realize that when it comes to friends, quality is far more important than quantity.  I guess I always knew that, but it really sunk in.  I’ve seen friends come together to help another friend.  I received an unexpected phone call from a friend who just knew I needed support and someone to talk to.  I asked another friend for advice and he was incredibly helpful.  I’m so so grateful for the meaningful friendships I do have.

4.       It’s a new month.  Sometimes it just feels good to start fresh.  A and I ordered Chinese food last night.  When we were done eating, A handed me a fortune cookie.  At first I was confused and thought the fortune had been printed on different paper than usual.  But I soon realized I had a personalized fortune – “Great things will come your way in May”.  It was sweet and thoughtful and totally cheered me up. J  I love A.

 

 

So despite the low points, I’m feeling very blessed. <3  Welcome, May!